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Thank you for being patient as I was getting my new site ready!
Next week I should be releasing a series of short instructional videos along with some in-field footage, a ten page guide on how to pick up women at the gym, a guide on how to pick up women on Facebook, and my top ten field reports.
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I haven’t posted anything in a while as I’ve been working with a new company to create new products, videos, field reports, and a new site for me. This will be all be up soon!
Here are some of the best places to meet women in Los Angeles. These places are not ranked in order of my preference, I just numbered them so that they would be easier to read.
- Whole Foods (3rd and Fairfax or Santa Monica and Fairfax) – Beautiful women who are in shape, look great, and take good care of themselves go here.
- 3rd Street Promenade – As you walk up the Promenade, hundreds of beautiful women come into view.
- The Grove Mall – I love this place. Beautiful women who dress well and live in my area.
- Beverly Center Mall – Come on a Saturday and you’ll be treated to gorgeous trendy women from all over the world
- The Den on Fridays – Great bar, cheap drinks, and a good crowd on Friday nights.
- The Roosevelt – Nearly every day of the week they have some type of event here. Their lounge area is excellent and their weekend pool parties (along with their Tuesday Swim Nights) can be great.
- Cafe Primo – Stop by during lunch time and you’ll see gorgeous women and an occasional celebrity.
- UCLA – There are LOTS of beautiful women at this campus.
Certain environments are going to be more conducive to sex. For example, in Mexico, Europe, and certain places in the United States; Vegas, Miami, and New York, the mindset about sex is much more loose and relaxed than other parts of world. From my experience, women in those areas have healthier views about sex and are much more apt to have sex on the first night rather than wait for it. Also, in cities like Las Vegas, women there are in a party atmosphere. They are there to have fun and know that whatever they do there is for the most part an isolated occurrence so they will go MUCH farther than they would if they were in their hometowns.
College-campuses are also great spots to meet LOTS of women however some college campuses are better than others. For example, San Diego State University (SDSU) has some of the hottest women I’ve ever seen and they are down to party! Whereas when I was at the University of Southern California, the vibe was much slower and I would occasionally see a really pretty woman. I was recently at SDSU, and in less than forty-five minutes of walking around the campus, I had four numbers and was on my way back to a woman’s apartment. The atmosphere there is incredibly conducive to sex. There are thousands of beautiful women there who like to have fun.
One place I like to go to is high-end bars and clubs for the low guy to girl ratio. Depending on where you go, there might be as high as a one guy to four girls (or even higher ratio). With an atmosphere like that, you are the prize! Women have to compete to have you. Regarding clubs in Los Angeles, a club could be great one night and horrible the next as some clubs have different promoters for different nights. For example, one of my favorite clubs in Los Angeles is excellent on Friday nights but isn’t nearly as good on Saturdays as the club has different promoters for each night. On Friday nights, there are tons of women there and very few guys in the venue. On Saturday’s, there are guys everywhere and you have to really work to meet someone.
Where are you meeting your women? Is the environment you’re in working for you? Is there somewhere better you can go?
Where are the women that I meet and interact with? They are EVERYWHERE! At your supermarket, in the cars next to you, in your classroom, at nightclubs, everywhere! Women are half the population of this earth! There are literally BILLIONS of them for you to interact with. So many guys I know talk about “going out” to meet women. I take the approach that once I am out of my house, I’m out! As soon as I step outside my door, I consider myself out. You could call this every-day game or everywhere game. Some guys do night game, others day game, for me, it’s game time as soon as I step out the door. I live in a great part of Los Angeles and I know I am going to see a few beauties every time I leave my place.
I like to go to high end malls, bars, and clubs to meet women simply because I like the type of women that go there. They’re confident, look good, in shape, and dress well. I also like higher end supermarkets such as Whole Foods or Trader Joes for the same reason. One of the main reasons I go to high-end clubs and bars is simply because the guy to girl ratio is much lower. At a really exclusive club in Los Angeles, you might see a guy to girl ratio of maybe one guy to every four or five women. This means women are going to have to compete with each other to get you! When you walk in an exclusive club like that, you see a sea of beautiful women in front of you. It’s worth the time and effort to get into that venue. I’ve been asked by guys where they can meet high-end models, and I recommend the places I go to; high end malls, bars, clubs, and supermarkets. At the Whole Foods I go to, I regularly pickup gorgeous women there; actresses, models, the works. I enjoy going there so much that my friends take me with them when they go grocery shopping, even if I have nothing to buy, as they and I know I will meet someone.
Ask yourself, “Where do I meet my women?” Does the system you have in place for meeting women work for you? Is there an abundance of women in your life? How many women do you currently pass by that you could be approaching? Are there areas that you could be going to that could be more conducive to meeting women?
In my seminars and talks, I often ask the following question; “What do you think is the most important key to having success with women?” Some men yell out “Confidence!” Others say “Looks”. For some it’s “Status”, others it’s “Fame”. I even get the occasional; “A nice car!”
The answer to me is mindset or “attitude”. You could have the looks, money, fame, confidence, and even a nice car, but if you don’t feel like approaching or interacting with women, then you’re not going to. I’ve seen this firsthand when I use to hang out with a very famous actor. My actor friend was very good-looking, rich, smart, confident, has status and fame, however when we were hanging out, he was at the point in his life where he wanted to settle down and get married. He had already slept with tons of gorgeous women and had no desire to chase women in the club. When we would go out, women would practically line up to meet him (there would literally be a line of women near him) and I would bring two or three over at a time for us to talk. My friend though was so uninterested in these women as he had done this routine so many times before, that he would bore the women and they would leave after a few minutes of meeting him. Despite having the money, looks, fame, and confidence to have virtually any woman he wanted, his state of mind was so poor that he wasn’t attracting any woman into his life.
If your state of mind is anything less than stellar, change it! Do the exercise on page 20 of my book “How to Meet Women” so that you could put yourself into “state” at will. First, and foremost, you’ll feel much better as you’ll be in a happier state of mind. And second, you’ll take better actions which will get you better results from this improved state. Whoever said “Attitude is everything” really knew what they were talking about.
The other day I was telling one of my friends; “I have a little bit of niceness that I need to squeeze out.” It’s not that there is anything wrong with being genuinely nice, however, I had taken some time off from pickup to focus on my career and during the time off my skills had waned a little bit. As a result, I wasn’t going as hard, loud, or direct in my interactions with women as I normally would. There was this little bit of sweetness/niceness/dishonesty/fakeness that I needed to eliminate. Yes, I said dishonesty and fakeness. Instead of being direct and asking or going for what I want, I was going more indirect in my sets and beating around the bush in the hopes that the woman I was speaking to at the time would like me, or that I wouldn’t offend her. To get my sword sharp again, I went out a few days in a row, collected a bunch of numbers, and my game regained its tightness.
A lot of guys take the “niceness” approach to women and life. By being “nice”, they hope women and people will like them. Now I’m not talking about being polite and courteous, the guys I’m describing are almost like doormats, they let women say and do whatever they want, and walk all over them. For an example of this, watch what happens the next time a hot woman tells a joke and see how every guy around her laughs like it was the funniest thing they’ve ever heard in their lives. If it’s funny, laugh, but if it’s not, don’t. Give a real reaction based on how you feel, not in the hopes of gaining her approval.
Yesterday I was on Mark Munoz’s excellent blog postmasculine.com and read an article called “Book Reviews” in which he reviewed Dr. Robert Glover’s amazing book “No More Mr. Nice Guy.” I decided to check out the book and have pretty much spent the entire day reading it and applying the lessons. It’s like a fire has been lit under my butt since reading it! Obviously my sex life is great, but my “niceness” in the area of my career needed to be eliminated. There have been a lot of opportunities I needed to jump on but I kept waiting until I was “perfect” for me to begin them. The truth is that I will never be perfect. No one is. I am good, and as I begin my career, I will improve along the way. As long as I am providing value and helping people grow, then it is worth it for me to take actions on the opportunities in my life. I am now going to be offering some mini-bootcamps for those of you who would like to train with me, will have videos up of me in sets (you guys have no idea how many video guys I have gone through for this), and I even started training in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu again.
“No More Mr. Nice Guy” is a fantastic book that will help you overcome your “niceness” and reclaim your true power and strength. I recommend it to anyone who wants to tap into their authenticity and live a truly empowered life. Check it out! It’s worth the read!
Here is a good article on how one woman views dating and sex:
I think it’s worth the read as it’s my belief and experience that many women have similar reactions when they meet a man they like. This is a good article especially for those of you who might think that all women are virgins, prudes, and never have sex. That is usually far from the case as most women (especially in some parts of the world) are really in touch with their sexuality.